How long would you let a homeless friend stay at your house?

a few days ago I let my sister and her 21 yo daughter and her daughter’s 8 month old baby stay at my house for a few days because my sister’s bf left her and she just got evicted and had no where to go. Day 2 of them staying here, her daughter and my sister got into a verbal altercation and when I went to break it up and make them stop, her daughter started to scream and yell at me all sorts of mean curse words for no reason at all. I gave her one chance to stop cursing me out in my own home or that I will put her out. Well she didn’t care and she continued disrespecting me in my home and yelling outside all loud and attracting unwanted attention from my neighbors that I didn’t need or want in my life. She made me get out of character and almost beat her a** because one thing you not going to do is come to my home and disrespect me in it! So I told her she needs to pack up her stuff and leave now! Needless to say, all 3 of them packed up and left and now my sister never wants to speak to me again. I regret it so much for trying to help them when I should have known better. They do this to my mom and my other sister all the time and ask for help and a place to stay at for a few weeks and then they dip out again and my sister goes back to her POS loser bf and her daughter follows because she is immature and never had a job in my 21 years of life and her mother takes care of her baby so she knows she can’t do it alone staying anywhere alone so she follows her mother… and it’s just a chaotic life they live that I regret even trying to help them solve and figure out. None of them have jobs and won’t get one. My sister is 40 something years old and hasn’t worked in 10 years and has told me she doesn’t want to work bc she is too “old”. That’s why they live in a damn camper the last 3 years, because that’s all that can afford with her bf’s disability check. And what gets me is how u get evicted from the camper you live in? Her camper is less then $100 a month… and they can’t even afford that? They are not trying to get anywhere in life. They want to mooch on people & go home to home and I just feel sorry for the baby more then anything because he doesn’t deserve to live like that. But they don’t care to do better and change that.

and let’s just say, they are still homeless right now and no one will help. And I don’t feel sorry. I tried to help, and I got disrespected in ways I can’t even begin to explain. I didn’t deserve that. I did to much for them. So they made their bed, now lay in it.

I learned from this that no matter who it is, family friends or stranger…. I’m no longer allowing anyone to stay at my house ever again.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

anyways, my niece disrespected me and tried to say sorry afterwards like I couldn’t tell how fake her apology was. I can read through her bs. I told her “sorry I don’t accept your fake apology. You said what you said and now I’m going to make you stand on it. It’s time you pack up and leave. Go figure it out where you are going to go because it isn’t here.”

I had to do that so she can learn her lesson. I wasn’t going to enable and allow them to do this to me like they do with everyone else. I was going to teach them the lesson they needed to learn.

my bf and I have a 3 day limit at our home for any of our family or friends who are Homeless. We don’t charge them anything, we feed them, let them shower, and after that 3rd day - it’s time to go. all we ask is that they clean up after themselves and respect our home and don’t bring anyone here.

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